Autism Acceptance Month: Supporting Neurodivergent Kids with Love & Advocacy
by Brooke Abbott Abron

Autism Acceptance Month isn’t just about “awareness.” It’s about action. It’s about moving beyond labels and misconceptions to celebrate and support neurodivergent children for exactly who they are—not who society thinks they should be.

For me, this journey started long before I became a mom.

When I was younger, I was fortunate to babysit for my mom’s really good friend and client, Holly Robinson Peete and her husband Rodney Peete, whose son RJ was diagnosed with Autism as a toddler. That experience opened my eyes in a way that books and classrooms never could. Watching how their family showed up with grace, strength, and love—and how RJ thrived with the right support— profoundly changed my life.

I went on to work for The HollyRod Foundation, founded by Holly and Rodney to support families affected by autism and Parkinson’s disease. Through HollyRod, I witnessed firsthand how access to therapy, resources, and community can be life-changing for children and their caregivers. Those years shaped my advocacy, my heart, and my purpose.

When I eventually became a mom, I felt a deep pull toward working directly with children again—this time as an ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) therapist. I wanted to be part of helping kids unlock their potential and helping families feel seen and supported.

So yes—Autism Acceptance Month is personal to me. And if you’re here as a parent, caregiver, or loved one of a neurodivergent child, I want you to know you’re not alone on this journey.

What Is ABA Therapy?

Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) is an evidence-based therapy that helps children develop communication, social, learning, and everyday living skills. It works by breaking down larger tasks into manageable steps and using positive reinforcement to support growth.

Good ABA therapy is individualized, affirming, and never about “fixing” a child—it’s about helping them thrive in the ways that are right for them.

If you're interested in ABA therapy for your child, the first step is usually through your pediatrician. They can refer you to a developmental pediatrician or neurologist, who can assess your child for autism and guide you to available resources. Once diagnosed, many families can access ABA through insurance, regional centers, or even their school district’s special education programs.

Early Signs & Why Early Intervention Matters

One of the most important things I’ve learned—through years of working with children on the spectrum and through parenting my own son—is this: early intervention can make all the difference.

When my son was around 2 years old, I started noticing a few small things. Nothing major or alarming—just subtle signs of sensory sensitivity. He’d get overwhelmed in loud spaces, avoid certain textures, and struggled with transitions. It wasn’t as intense as what I had seen in some of the children I’d worked with through the HollyRod Foundation, but my gut told me it was worth looking into.

And I’m glad I did. While he wasn’t on the autism spectrum, the evaluation revealed that he did have sensory processing challenges and showed early signs of ADHD, which was later confirmed when he was five. Knowing about his sensory needs early on and having access to supportive resources made a huge difference—especially during those critical preschool years. With the guidance of a therapist, we learned tools and techniques that helped him soothe himself, express his needs, and thrive.

Here’s the thing: you don’t need to check off every “classic” sign or wait for a diagnosis to ask questions. Sometimes, just being curious and seeking understanding is the most powerful step you can take. It opens the door to support, strategies, and peace of mind.

Some early signs of autism in toddlers may include:

• Limited eye contact

• Not responding to their name

• Repetitive movements (like hand flapping or spinning)

• Delayed speech or language development

• Intense need for routines or sameness

• Sensory sensitivities (to sounds, textures, lights)

• Preferring to play alone or difficulty with pretend play

If your child is under 3, you’re eligible for a free developmental assessment through your state’s Early Intervention Program—no referral needed. After age 3, your local public school district can evaluate your child for services through a preschool IEP or 504 Plan.

For our family, getting that evaluation early was key. Even though my son didn’t need intensive therapy, the insight, tools, and support we received were invaluable. And knowing that the free assessment opportunity would end once he turned three? That pushed me to act, even when I wasn’t totally sure what we’d find.

Early intervention isn’t about rushing to label your child. It’s about giving them the best possible start—and giving yourself the knowledge and resources you need to support them with confidence. No one regrets having too many tools in their parenting toolbox. But waiting too long for help? That can make the road harder than it needs to be.

So if something in your heart is nudging you to ask more questions—listen to that. Support starts with curiosity, and love always leads the way.

About The HollyRod Foundation

Founded by Holly Robinson Peete and Rodney Peete, the HollyRod Foundation was born out of love for their son RJ and a desire to help other families affected by autism and Parkinson’s. Their work has provided hope, resources, and community to countless families across the country.

Through their RJ’s Place initiative, HollyRod creates safe, inclusive environments where teens and young adults with autism can learn job skills, connect socially, and feel seen. The foundation also offers grants to help cover the costs of therapies, communication tools, and other essential resources for families navigating an autism diagnosis.

To learn more or get involved, visit hollyrod.org. They also have a great list of support programs, events, and resources for caregivers looking to connect with others. You can tell Holly & Rodney that Brooke Abbott Abron & Giggles LA sent ya!

Creating a Home That Supports, Not Stresses

The most important thing you can do for a neurodivergent child is to make your home a place of love and support—not correction. That means meeting them where they are, honoring their unique way of experiencing the world, and providing structure and comfort in ways that feel safe and affirming.

Here are a few tools and tips for home:

• Visual Schedules – Great for establishing routine and reducing anxiety around transitions

• Sensory-Friendly Spaces – A quiet corner with soft lighting, cozy textures, and fidget toys can go a long way

• Encouraging Communication – Whether that’s speech, sign, or assistive devices—communication in any form is valid

• Celebrate Their Interests – Lean into the dinosaur obsession, memorize train lines with them, and marvel at their encyclopedic brain. This is their joy—celebrate it.

• Model Inclusion – Talk to siblings about empathy, use inclusive language, and make advocacy a family value

• Sensory Toys and Games – Sometimes the simplest toys are the most powerful, offering calming, engaging ways for kids to explore, regulate, and express themselves.

You’re Not Alone—Find Your Community

Parenting a child with autism can feel overwhelming at times—but you do not have to walk this road alone. Support groups, playgroups, online forums, and nonprofits like The HollyRod Foundation offer encouragement, resources, and connection.

Other great places to start include:

• Your local Regional Center or Department of Developmental Services

• Los Angeles Speech & Language Therapy Center

• Autism Society of America

• Autism Speaks Toolkits for first diagnosis and early intervention

• Parent Facebook groups or local Meetup groups focused on autism support

Reading Resources for the Whole Family

Children's Picture Books (Ages 3–8)

1. My Brother Charlie by Holly Robinson Peete & Ryan Elizabeth Peete
   A beautifully written book by the Peete family about Holly’s son RJ, who is autistic. It’s told through the eyes of his twin sister and promotes love, inclusion, and understanding.

2. All My Stripes: A Story for Children with Autism by Shaina Rudolph & Danielle Royer
   Zane the zebra feels different because of his autism—but learns his “stripes” are what make him special. A great read for both neurodivergent and neurotypical kids.

3. A Friend for Henry by Jenn Bailey
   Follows a young autistic boy named Henry as he searches for a classroom friend. It’s gentle and honest about social challenges and emotional nuance.

Middle Grade (Ages 8–12)

1. Rain Reign by Ann M. Martin
   Told from the perspective of Rose, a girl with autism who loves homonyms and rules. A moving story about connection, loss, and resilience.

2. The Someday Birds by Sally J. Pla
   A heartwarming road trip story featuring Charlie, an autistic boy navigating grief, growth, and the beauty of his unique view of the world.

3. Anything But Typical by Nora Raleigh Baskin
   Told from the POV of a 12-year-old autistic boy navigating the world of storytelling and friendship in an online writing community.

Teen/YA (Ages 12+)

1. Same But Different: Teen Life on the Autism Express by Holly Robinson Peete, RJ Peete & Ryan Elizabeth Peete
   Co-written by Holly Robinson Peete and her twins, RJ and Ryan, this honest, funny, and moving story gives a dual perspective—what it’s like to be a teen on the autism spectrum and what it’s like to be their sibling. Based on their real-life experiences.

2. The State of Grace by Rachael Lucas
   Grace, a teen with Asperger’s, navigates the ups and downs of high school, relationships, and self-discovery. A fun and heartfelt coming-of-age story.

3. Marcelo in the Real World by Francisco X. Stork
   Marcelo, a teen on the autism spectrum, is challenged to leave his comfort zone and work in his father’s law firm—leading to powerful discoveries about ethics, empathy, and identity.

Parents/Care Partners

1. Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism by Dr. Barry M. Prizant
   A compassionate, strengths-based look at autism that reframes challenges as communication and encourages acceptance, not correction.

2. The Out-of-Sync Child by Carol Stock Kranowitz
   A go-to guide for understanding sensory processing differences. Helpful for parents whose children show sensory sensitivities, whether or not they’re diagnosed with autism.

3. Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew by Ellen Notbohm
   A must-read that blends personal insight with professional understanding. A powerful reminder to see your child first—not the diagnosis.

4. The Explosive Child by Dr. Ross W. Greene
   While not autism-specific, this book offers a transformative approach to parenting kids with behavioral challenges. It's especially useful for kids with autism, ADHD, or sensory issues.

5. Parenting a Child with Autism: A Modern Guide to Understand and Raise Your ASD Child to Success by Sarah McGuire
   A straightforward guide filled with tools and tips to support your child’s emotional, social, and academic growth.

6. More Than Words: A Parent's Guide to Building Interaction and Language Skills for Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder or Social Communication Difficulties by Fern Sussman (from the Hanen Centre)
   Fantastic for parents of young children who are nonverbal or have delayed language. Offers concrete strategies for promoting communication through everyday activities.

7. NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity by Steve Silberman
   An in-depth history and celebration of neurodiversity, advocating for a more inclusive world. Great for parents who want the bigger picture and context.

Autism isn’t a tragedy. The lack of support and understanding can be. So this month—and every month—let’s move from awareness to action. Let’s create a world where every child is supported, accepted, and celebrated for who they are.

If you’re just starting your journey, if you’ve been walking it for years, or if you’re supporting someone who is—thank you. You’re doing beautiful, powerful work.

With so much love and respect,
Brooke Abbott Abron
Mama. Former ABA Therapist. Longtime HollyRod Advocate. Giggles LA Contributor.

Brooke Abbott Abron for Giggles LA: Known as Crazy Creole Mommy online, Brooke is a mom, advocate, activist, babywearing educator, and writer. As the founder of IBDMoms, she combines practical tips, mom advice, and evidence-based insights from her own lived experience to help families navigate both the joys and challenges of parenting.